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September 26, 2006 Cutest Ever
Incidentally, today was Picture Day at Frances's daycare. Frances has one aunt in the States with exceptional taste in clothing and a good chunk of disposable income. When Frances was born, this manifested itself as a hefty package full of adorable and pricey girl clothes, sized 12 m to 2 years (depending on the outfit). At the time, we assumed she would be wearing those clothes on schedule. Not so much. Last Christmas, she wore the fuzzy purplish-blue dress with a butterfly on it for her Santa pictures (some of you have seen it). That was sized 12 months. Today for picture day, she is wearing an outfit sized 18 months. It's a small 18 months; the important thing is, it fits. Over top of the cream-coloured 12-month tights and turtleneck-bodysuit I bought her last winter, she is wearing the forest-green corduroy skirt with tan and cranberry flowers stitched on it, and the cranberry-coloured knit vest that her Aunt S sent her almost three years ago. I could tell they were expensive because the tags were printed on cardstock with a paragraph about how the innocence of childhood complements the use of fine fabrics and craftsmanship. I think Frances agrees. When I dressed her in it this morning, and laced up her black patent "party shoes" and combed her hair, she ran excitedly to the mirror to admire her gorgeous self. Then she walked primly around the first floor, stepping gingerly to avoid scuffing her special shoes, until it was time to go. Yesterday, a six-foot-tall colleague of mine wore a nearly-identical outfit: white shirt, forest-green skirt (only it was a fine plaid, not corduroy), a cranberry-coloured knit vest. This colleague clearly loves clothes and is much more up on the styles than I am, and often looks like she just stepped down from an Elle photoshoot. This morning, Frances modeled the same look for the under-30-inch crowd. And clearly loved it. She practically glowed with pride over her special party clothes. I am not one for dressing up. I had a phase where I wore miniskirts a lot when I was fourteen, but since then, it's been jeans. I wear jeans to work four days out of five. I dress Frances in practical, low-maintenance clothing that is easy to play in and wash. Blue jeans. T-shirts. Running shoes. Overalls. But when I give her the choice? Skirts. If I want her to wear pants, I have to not offer skirts. If she knows skirts are on the table, that's what she wants. One day this past summer she chose for herself a bright pink-and-yellow flowered skirt with a bright pink t-shirt, her black-and-yellow rainboots and a big floppy flowered straw hat. On another day, when we were to meet friends at the mall, she chose a flounced-and-ruffled blue dress with white polkadots. She didn't get this from me; it came straight from my mother. Most days it's something we have to work around so she can wear clothing she likes that doesn't restrict her movements. But today, we let her inner diva out to play for picture day. And I can't wait to see the photographs. Posted by Andrea at September 26, 2006 1:59 PM under Beanie Baby Brags EMAIL this entry (comments fields are below this section) Comments It's funny, that girl-clothes thing. It definitely skips generations. I am a total blue-jeans-and-sneakers kinda gal -- in fact I told two lesbian friends at work today that my Indian name is "Dresses Like Dyke" as they were admiring my corduroy shirt (sorry, hope that wasn't offensive to native people or lesbians ... my friends thought it was hilarious). I just can't get into the girly-girl look and never have been able to. But my daughter? Dresses, skirts, frills and fluff all the way. My mom is not like that either (though her name would be more like "Dresses Like Corporate Power Broker") so we assume some random gene from my husband's side of the family must have brought out all the girly-dressing chromosomes in Emma. As I write this she is standing in front of the mirror admiring herself -- her favourite spot in the house. Frances' photo sounds adorable -- I'd like to see it too! Posted by: TrudyJ at September 26, 2006 2:14 PM
Aw, I can't wait to see the photos either! Please share them with me, even if you don't post them here! ;) Posted by: Karyn at September 26, 2006 2:20 PM
My mother swears my sister gave birth to my daughter. My neice is two and a half, but has been a girly girl practically from birth. She loves make-up, jewelry, fancy clothes, high heeled shoes. My sister is so not a girlie-girl, so it is clearly a case of nature instead of nurture. She was born loving all things feminine. I live in the deep South, and my sister recently moved from here back to our home town in WI. It was a year before I saw them again, and Sadie, my niece was very standoffish because of course, she didn't remember me. So I sat down on the couch, opened up my purse, and pulled out all my girly goods. She was in my lap in about 2.3 seconds. So my sister is raising my daughter, and I was given boys to raise. I'm envious of your girly girl. I bet she's adorable. :?) Posted by: Blog_Antagonist at September 26, 2006 2:29 PM
The outfit sounds adorable, as does Frances' enjoyment of said outfit. :) Posted by: parodie at September 26, 2006 3:09 PM
Hi there, I was just nosing around and came across your blog and thought I'd comment. I have to say that dressing up my little girl is one of the main reasons I'm excited about this baby being a girl instead of a boy. There just aren't as many cute boy clothes out there ~ and my father gets all up and arms if I put even a slightly "girly" looking outfit on Baby Boy. He insisted that we buy a suit for the baptism because he wore a gown when he was baptized and swears everyone thought he was a girl. Oh well. :) This time around I can go all out with the frills and the lace (if I want to!) I bet the pictures will turn out wonderful! Hope you don't mind me stopping by! Posted by: Janene at September 26, 2006 3:23 PM
Me, too! Can't wait for the photos! Posted by: yankee,transferred at September 26, 2006 3:50 PM
Me too! Can't wait! I love me some Francestime! Posted by: liz at September 26, 2006 9:11 PM
BA, that's so funny! Janene, thank you, and welcome. Posted by: Andrea at September 27, 2006 6:36 AM
Aw, a little girly action isn't SO bad. This coming from moi, who was relieved when finding out the second and last child was another boy so I wouldn't have to deal with frills EVER. But that outfit sounds scrumptious...how I love corduroy skirts! I'd like a private photo showing too! ;) Posted by: Tanya at September 27, 2006 7:26 AM
that outfit sounds adorable. Frances always sounds adorable :) Posted by: suze at September 27, 2006 8:51 AM
Sounds like an ADORABLE scene!!! ANd don't worry - excessive attraction to girly clothing in childhood (as well as princesses and pink) does NOT automatically translate to frail classic feminine roles in adulthood. As supporting (anecdotal) evidence - my favorite outfit as a child was a pink dress with a skirt that went 'flat out' - and I still adore pink. But you know where I stand on that other stuff. ;) Posted by: rachel at September 27, 2006 9:29 AM
Uh, ahem. Yeah. Today is Tristan's first-ever school photo day, too. Beloved called me in a panic because there were NO clean pants in his drawer. I told him to go ahead, put the ones with the holes in the knee on him. Beloved balked. I said, for the individual portrait we'll never see his knees, and he's the tallest one in the class therefore will definitely be in the back row for the class picture. Put him in the ones with the hole in the knees. I really hope I get the chance for a dress-up doll this time around! Posted by: Danigirl at September 27, 2006 11:42 AM
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