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September 5, 2006 TGT: Frances's Froggy Friends
Monday, while we were tidying up the backyard--or, all right, as Erik was tidying up the backyard--in acknowledgement of the winding down of summer, he came upon a small grey frog hiding in the shadow of the bag of potting soil. Before meeting the frogs of this neighbourhood, incidentally, I had no idea adult frogs could be this small. Today's was just about as long as the outer joint of my thumb. Frances loves frogs not only on their own account these days, but also because she's seen that Max and Ruby episode a few too many times--the one where Max makes friends with a frog, and calls him "friend!" Only Ruby can't see the frog and thinks Max is talking to an imaginary friend, and hijinks ensue. So the poor frogs, in addition to having to deal with a gigantic (to their view) person stalking them all over the deck gibbering excitedly, also are blasted with "FRIEND!" whenever they are spotted. Cruel, but cute. Frances, at two-and-three-quarters (I am trying to induce her to say this, but so far she still insists she's two-and-a-half) is a pro with the frogs. She knows how to hold her hands together to make a good platform for froggy feet, and how to hold still so they won't jump away; today, she figured out how to pick them up. This is significant not only in terms of her frog-chasing development but also because it gave me a chance to whip out the camera and take a few shots. I won't post the ones showing her face, so you'll have to take my word for it: the expression of overwrought wonder is priceless: the mouth rounded into a perfect O, the huge blue eyes round, the fixed interest, the tiny grey frog trembling in the foreground. It was one of the kinds with sticky pads on its feet, so when Frances would go to put it down and turn her hand over to dislodge it, it remained there, stuck to her, upside down.
The rest of the day she asked to go outside and hold her friend the frog again. I'm not sure the frog felt quite so positively about their little interaction, however, so when she was distracted I put him down in a garden near the deck where he could hide himself. ~~~~~ I am just about to give up on the back garden. It's not that nothing will grow there, it's that it all gets eaten. About half of the perennials I put in over the spring and summer are still there, the rest were hauled up by the roots and carried off by one critter or another as dinner. The doves even roost in my flower boxes (which explains those large, bare hollows in the dirt). And I probably could devise a way to keep the animals out, but why would I? The animals are why I like the backyard so much to begin with. Not to mention Frances's attachments to the squirrels, chipmunks, rabbits and frogs. I have the winter to think about it, but at the very least I have a new requirement to add to next spring's garden shopping list: inedible. Posted by Andrea at September 5, 2006 3:08 AM under The Green Toddler EMAIL this entry (comments fields are below this section) Comments Plant more native species, they will probably stand up to "predation" better. Incidentally have you seen: http://www.naturallymaintained.com/ecolawn.html (There are others that are similar though I think this one has the most different seeds to it is probably the most versitle) I want to replace my lawn with it at some point. I hate mowing. Posted by: Brenda at September 5, 2006 1:22 PM
adorable...i love girls who love frogs! ;) good luck with the gardening...we have issues with things being eaten as well. EVERY year i buy too many pansies to fit in my various pots, and EVERY year i plant whatever is left in the front flower beds. they are the only thing that gets eaten. you'd think i'd learn after 5 years... Posted by: Tanya at September 5, 2006 2:21 PM
Brenda, they are native species! That's why I went native--unfortunately, they still got eaten. ... oh well. Isn't it adorable, TAnya? This is definitely a page in teh scrapbook. Posted by: Andrea at September 5, 2006 2:54 PM
Frances' little hands are so sweet. There's nothing like toddler extremeties to make me feel all gushy. I have no gardening advice. I'm not getting one frickin tomato this year. Damn squirrels. Posted by: Casey at September 6, 2006 7:11 AM
Isn't there a way for you to have pics of Frances on your site without other people being able to copy them? I feel so deprived of that open-mouthed "O" moment. Posted by: arline at September 6, 2006 12:10 PM
Well if they are native plants then my only suggestion is to get a very loud dog. I have a dog that barks at any strange animal so I don't even get coons in the green bin very often ;-) And the only thing that digs up my gardens is this one cat, but now that I take the hose to her whenever I see her she leaves us alone more. (I hate *that* cat, always torturing the dog, always pooping in my garden. And I *like* cats) Of course not everyone wants/has time for a dog. I hope I didn't miss meeting you at Withrow park on Monday. I was so sad I couldn't go but DiscoBaby and I were still getting over the sniffles and I figured it was best not to make everyone sick. Posted by: Brenda at September 6, 2006 2:54 PM
I'm with Casey - those toddler hands are so gentle and beautiful. This picture makes me want to go look for a frog friend of my own! Posted by: Sue at September 6, 2006 7:56 PM
I love the photo!! It's amazing to catch something like that with the camera! Usually the moment is gone before we can say "Click. Take a pic!" ;-) Posted by: Karyn at September 6, 2006 10:12 PM
Brenda, no. I ended up not sleeping much the night before and decided it wasn't really safe to drive, under the circumstances. It's too bad. Gods only know when my next weekday off will be. arline, not that I know of. I've tried a few common google misdirection methods, and those didn't work. Posted by: Andrea at September 6, 2006 11:44 PM
Sorry I haven't been commenting lately, I'm exhausted, and I think I owe you an email... But I've been skimming and I wanted to say that this picture of Frances made me smile. She's so adorable, and so gentle. You've got an amazing girl there, and if there's another little girl or boy added to the mix, they too will be amazing. Good job. :) Posted by: rachel at September 9, 2006 10:49 PM
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