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December 15, 2006 Frances Friday: A Reunion
This week I went to Ottawa on business. It was not all bad. I got a hotel room, which means two decent nights of sleep. I got room service. I got a quiet room all to myself, which means some time for writing and planning and a wee smidgen of thinking space, sorely needed. I got to see Dani and Tanya, though sadly not at the same time, and Tanya introduced me to my new favourite fish and chips. But oh I missed my little girl. She called me twice, though. She's getting the hang of this telephone thing, though not so much the etiquette; both times, as I picked up the handset, instead of the customary "hello" I heard, "That's Mummy on the phone!" "You're right, that IS Mummy on the phone." And almost better than the little conversations we shared was the stomping of her tiny feet, in the background, as she jumped up and down in joy to be talking to her Mummy (on the phone!). "Hi Mummy!" thump thump thump "I'm good." thump thump thump "I miss you." thump thump thump "I'm jumping!" thump thump thump When I came home, there was the sound of my beautiful girl's voice: "That's the front door, Daddy. Mummy's home!" And there she was, running to the front door, then stopping to bounce. "It's Mummy! Mummy's home! You're home, Mummy! Daddy, Mummy's home! Are you home, Mummy?" "I think so. Am I home?" "You are! You're home!" thump thump thump She hugged me and kissed me, sat on my lap, lay on my tummy, rolled over me, and even tried to eat my nose. And after we inspected her fingers and toes and belly button and determined that they had not changed, except for maybe being a very little bit bigger, and after watching the Grinch again and sympathizing with Max and agreeing that Cindy Lou Who really does look a lot like Frances, and after opening the box on her advent calendar, and after me giving Frances a bath while Frances bathed Elmo, and then into jammies and on to the big bed for a long snuggle, and then tucking Frances into bed with her bunny rabbit and Baby Bear and Ella the Elephant where she fell quickly asleep, a bad low sent me down into the kitchen for rocket candies and a drink. And though I still feel as if I've swallowed several large pieces of broken glass that shift whenever I move, I was left knowing that I'm a lucky woman. My bite-sized babe makes up for a lot. ~~~~~ I have today off. This morning I'm dropping some gifts off at a women's shelter, then going to see Frances's daycare holiday pageant, after which I'm stealing her away and we will spend the afternoon catching up. We have a gingerbread house or two to make, and those sugar cookies aren't going to roll and frost themselves. Posted by Andrea at December 15, 2006 6:52 AM under Frances Friday EMAIL this entry (comments fields are below this section) Comments Sounds like some much needed time to think. Glad you are getting some fun time with frances too! Today sounds like a great break. Thinking of you! Posted by: rachel at December 15, 2006 10:47 AM
Thinking of you. The ear is always here, should you want to use it. And Frances just gets more delicious by the day. Posted by: art-sweet at December 15, 2006 11:17 AM
Sounds like a wonderful homecoming. I recently went away for a week and, while it was nice to make a few decisions on the fly without consideration for a little person, I missed her desperately. It sounds like you're about to have a wonderful afternoon, too. Posted by: Jill at December 15, 2006 1:08 PM
the bite sized ones do make up for a lot. i think i know very well what you meant when you said your homecoming was not unreservedly joyous. i really think i do. Posted by: jen at December 15, 2006 1:30 PM
Welcome home! We missed you. Posted by: Miche at December 16, 2006 8:52 AM
How cute to get phone calls from your little girl! I look forward to that day. You know, I've had two people independently say Julia looks like Cindy Lou Who too! Posted by: lisa at December 16, 2006 12:01 PM
She is so delicious! Posted by: liz at December 16, 2006 12:30 PM
When I watch The Grinch (as we always do on Christmas Eve), I will think of Frances and her adorable Cindy Lou Who ways. It was so great to meet her back in October (plus her wonderful mama). Posted by: Ann D at December 18, 2006 11:29 PM
thanks, Ann. :) Posted by: Andrea at December 19, 2006 7:29 AM
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