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December 12, 2006

TGF: A Farm Farewell

It's not easy to be green in a Canadian winter. Just look outside to see why--everything is brown, grey, and an occasional dirty white.

I struggle with this, with how you encourage a child to forge bonds with the non-human environment during those months of the year when the non-human environment can easily kill. We already have had one day this fall when the temperatures dipped to -18C with a wind chill. That's cold.

Yet I think that this bond needs to be based on respect, and the non-human environment is in all cases almost certainly stronger than any person, so learning to avoid the bitterly cold is not a bad thing. I think the opposite would be worse--teaching that winter in Canada is a fuzzy-bunny season of snowmen and sledding would be to Disneyfy what, until very recently, was a brutal season. Even a hundred years ago working and middle class families struggled all winter, when the money for fuel ran out in December and left them cold until Spring.

So we haven't been getting out much. It's been too bloody cold. And while the Life Lessons may be entirely positive it doesn't make for a stirring narrative.

But last weekend the temperature climbed to +7C, warm enough to leave the necks of our winter coats unzipped and make do without mittens and gloves for short periods. So we made our last trip to the local farm, which closes just before Christmas and reopens in May.

The weather was just warm enough to thaw the mud, and all of us got our blue jeans spattered between the car and the farm's door. We bought a bag of cabbage for the rabbits (fifty cents) and went first to the open barn, which for some reason we'd never before visited. Inside were more sheep and goats, two truly humongous turkeys--the rest we'd seen in the Spring must have been slaughtered already for Thanksgiving and Christmas, a few cows, and approximately twenty chickens.

"Look, Frances. Here are the chickens who make our eggs."

"They say 'cluck cluck,'" said Frances.

OK, it wasn't the reaction I was going for. But I was happy to see them, since lingering in the back of my mind was that I was taking their egg advertising at face value and assuming that the free-range chickens must be around somewhere. And here they were, cluck-clucking, gathering at the fence to beg for a snack, beaks and tails and feathers intact. Healthy happy chickens, unafraid of people.

After feeding our cabbage to the bunny rabbits, we slipped and slid back into the store. Onions, garlic, honey from their own bees, butter tarts, a few dozen eggs, ground beef and a roast, and eggnog.

Happiness, for this holiday fanatic, is finding a locally-made eggnog supply two weeks before Yule.

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We've been putting peanuts out the back door again, to watch the squirrels and the blue jays come down. It works; every time we are rewarded by black squirrels playing tag in the snow or a flash of blue as a jay swoops in and away.

I'm trying to decide if it means I'm a wimp if, every time a squirrel scampers through the snow to snatch a peanut and run back to its nest, I wince at the thought of its cold, aching paws. But it's probably too much to knit them all booties.


Posted by Andrea at December 12, 2006 7:19 AM under The Green Family

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Can you make your own egg nog?

Posted by: LauraJ at December 12, 2006 7:59 AM

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I love the image of you trying to put little booties on the squirrels. But I'd say if they are warm enough to play tag they are warm enough to go to school. I mean, to come to the deck for peanuts.

Posted by: Madeleine at December 12, 2006 10:10 AM

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The Little House on the Prairie Cookbook has an Eggnog recipe.

It sounds like a great farm and a lovely day.

Posted by: liz at December 12, 2006 10:52 AM

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Aw, sounds wonderful. She is too cute, "cluck, cluck."

Posted by: yankee,transferred at December 12, 2006 11:30 AM

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Ha. I was thinking of a similar post for TheGreenHouse, reflecting on what few things we can (and occasionally do) outside in the winter, and on my urge to hibernate until late April. We actually got out and walked through the wet woods on Sunday (getting a tree at the local farm down the road), but today it is in the 30's (around 0*C for all you Canadians) and pouring. My dog keeps scratching at the door, but when I open it she draws back and goes and lies back on the couch.

Posted by: Sandy D. at December 12, 2006 2:13 PM

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good post. and good thoughts for how we can maintain the lessons we want to teach even when obstacles are greater.

Posted by: jen at December 12, 2006 3:58 PM

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I was never that far north but lived in Bellingham, Washington for four years. We would get a wicked cold wind off the bay. Wind chill always dropped the temp below zero.

Posted by: MothersKnowBest at December 12, 2006 7:48 PM

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You all are assuming that I have any desire to make my own eggnog. Which, if I weren't already baking a few dozen batches of goodies, and hand-making gifts, and away on business right now, and and and, I might be; but under the circumstances I'm just as happy to be able to buy it!

Sandy, this one actually is going up on the GreenHouse tomorrow morning. :)

Posted by: Andrea at December 12, 2006 9:01 PM

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Did you like the butter tarts? I LOVE their butter tarts!! YUMMY!

Posted by: PeanutButtersMum at December 12, 2006 10:26 PM

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I spent the first 4 years of my life on a family farm and grew up in a community of family farms. I took my daughter into a barn over Thanksgiving and she was terrified to the core of her being. With the disappearance of family farms and the rise of centralized agricultural practices I worry that our kids will never know the sensation or importance of having a new born calf suck their fingers.

Just another reason to support the small organic farmer.

Posted by: Mad Hatter at December 13, 2006 10:19 AM

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PBM--yes! They make the best butter tarts. I'll be in withdrawal from January to May.

MH, I agree.

Posted by: Andrea at December 13, 2006 2:37 PM

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The day we took our two year old son to the local goat farm was one of our best times ever. I love the way children see things in such a simple and pure way.

Posted by: alice at December 14, 2006 6:14 PM

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You have SNOW?! :)

Posted by: Kristina at December 15, 2006 12:38 AM

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We *had* snow, last weekend when I drafted it.

Posted by: Andrea at December 15, 2006 8:37 AM

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Go Berserk




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