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February 22, 2007

Privacy: Risen from the Grave

I perform elaborate mental acrobatics to find and justify a comfortable distance to Frances's story, to wit: I do not record Frances's story here. Frances's story is hers to record. What I record here is my story; and Frances is an inescapable part of my story. I cannot write my own life without her in it. It would be false, wrong, insulting, horrible.

But I do not own her face. Legally, I own the representations of her face that I make when I photograph her, but I do not own her face. Her face is the Frances the world sees, and no psuedonym will ever obscure it.

My words can be stolen, and have been; I don't like it, but they're only words. As long as my words stay the same, it may be plagiarism, but it's still obviously my story about Frances, not Frances's story. If the words are stolen and changed, then not only is it not Frances's story, it's not even my story about Frances; it has no relation to her at all. It could be about any number of Frances's in the world. No one she meets by random in the grocery store or at a job interview is likely to confuse them. But her face?

If her face is stolen, there is nothing that can get it back, it is immediately recognizable to anyone who sees her, and it becomes worse if someone mutilates it.

I'm not afraid of pedophiles. All right, I am not afraid of pedophiles, very much. Anyone determined to source pedophiliac recreations could carry his camera phone into any local playground and find ample material for whatever fantasies he dreams up. This is much less likely to lead to exposure or capture than electronic searches, which leave their dirty fingerprints all over everything and will really get you in trouble when the police confiscate your computer.

I'm afraid of jerks.

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You know how I have my own nifty domain name and everything? I could never go back. Besides having more control and being able to do layouts that are all purty and stuff, I could never blog with peace of mind without a comprehensive web usage analysis program, which I get through my host.

Within a few months of making the blog public, I noticed on my webhost's stats program that I was getting a lot of visitors from a specific livejournal page, but no hits. Visitors without hits, I have learned, are a bad sign: basically it means "something is going from your site to theirs but no one is coming through a link or viewing your content in place." I didn't know this at the time; I just cut the url out of the stats program, pasted it into Explorer and hit enter. To find one of my favourite photos of Frances linked to on the blog of a fratboy asshole, and following it, a detailed discussion of "what was wrong with her" amongst his friends.

It could have been worse. Much worse. If he had right-clicked, saved and then uploaded the image, I'd never have found out, and if I had, there would have been nothing I could do. As it was, I deleted the image from my server, which deleted it from his page.

Sitemeter will never tell you if this is happening, because it only tracks people who come through to read your site directly, and those imperfectly. I always have more hits show up on my webhost's program than I do on sitemeter. Sitemeter does not track people who have posted a link to one of your images and then viewed it on another page for the same reason that it won't show your written content being pirated on Bitacle.

Now that I've removed all of the images that show Frances's face, the Myspace and Livejournal referrals of visitors-without-pageviews has plummeted to nearly zero, and the ones that remain are people I know.

Remember two things:

1. This happened within a few short months of going public. My readership at that time was very small. You do not have to be a big blog with a big readership for your images to be pirated.

2. This was not the only such link I found. There were several other complimentary ones (look at this cute kid! What big blue eyes!) which, while less traumatic, still drove the point home. My little piddly blog with such sweet innocent photos of my little girl was attracting some very strange attention from corners of the internet that had nothing to do with kids or with mothers.

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At the time, I didn't take what seemed like drastic measures. Instead, I stopped saving and uploading photos with actual names, and used date tags for the titles. Because Google? Indexes and caches images by keyword. Filenames and tags are keywords, and Google will index and cache those images.

Meaning that a photo with a filename of "Annas-first-bath.jpg" will come up on google, on whatever page, if someone does a search for "first bath." But a photo titled "060321.jpg" will come up on search for "060321."

This helped, and it's still a good idea; but several months later it happened again.

I was diligent. I checked the webhost stats every day for suspicious referrals. But that's not how I found out about it. The only reason I learned about the second image was because a reader here recognized Frances's photo and alerted me to its presence on fark.com.

I didn't find this one myself because the thief was smarter than the first: he right-clicked and saved it so he could photoshop it. There is no technology on earth would allow me to discover or control this use, and no way to enforce the laws meant to prevent this. Her image had been cut out of the photo I'd taken and spliced into a swamp, making it look like she was a big mutant swamp monster. (Fortunately, I was able to track down his contact info and guilt him into taking it down.)

Think this is just my bad luck? A horrible fluke? No. Dawn, of This Woman's Work, had the same problem: photos were stolen, she started using numbers for filenames, photos were still stolen. Again, she has her own domain name and her own webhost. That's what allowed her to track it down and deal with it. She doesn't post pictures of her kids on her blog anymore.

If you do not have access to a webhost with a good stats program, you should assume that any photo you post is being indexed and cached by Google according to filename, including keywords in the post it is embedded in. You should assume that it is being stolen. People can post your pictures of your kids (or you) on their profiles on social networking sites, on their own blogs, in their signature files on bulletin boards. They may see the beauty that you do; they may instead see an opportunity to ridicule or disparage.

I have heard of several cases of people stealing photos of children to post on their sites as their own children. Worse (much worse), I've had occasion to interact with people who believe that anyone stupid enough to post a picture on the internet deserves to have it downloaded and their face photoshopped onto the picture of a donkey being fucked in the ass by Bill Clinton. They see publicly posted photographs as an opportunity to practice what they perceive as vigilante put-in-your-placeness.

Sitemeter is not capable of informing you when another site links to your images.

Blogger (and so far as I know, typepad and wordpress) will not provide you with the tools to track these down.

And Flickr (owned by Yahoo), where so many bloggers store their photographs, owns them once you post them:

"...with respect to Content you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the Service, you grant Yahoo! the following worldwide, royalty-free and non-exclusive license(s), as applicable: ... With respect to photos, graphics, audio or video you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the Service other than Yahoo! Groups, the license to use, distribute, reproduce, modify, adapt, publicly perform and publicly display such Content on the Service solely for the purpose for which such Content was submitted or made available."

Once you put the photo up, there's no way you can control its use until you take it down. Considering that the only legal avenue to misuse of posted photographs currently is copyright violation, this is important.

Yes, there are all kinds of tools that Flickr makes available that will tell you that you control the privacy. It's horseshit. Unless you restrict the photo so that no one can see it--in which case, you can't post it on your blog, either--anyone with a graphics program can look at your photo on flickr and do a screen capture, then crop the photo out in an editing program. Any image that is publicly viewable is publicly downloadable regardless of privacy and piracy settings. I also specifically read over the site to find if there is any way you can access stats about who is viewing your photos or where they are coming from. There isn't.

Blogger too allows uploading of image files. Want to hear what blogger has to say about image theft?

"Blogger is a provider of content creation tools, not a mediator of that content. We allow our users to create blogs, but we don't make any claims about the content of these pages. In cases where a contact email address is listed on the page, we recommend working directly with the author to have this situation remedied."

In other words: "tough shit, user; you're on your own."

If you have more than a handful of readers, it is also prudent to assume that some unknown percentage of your audience actually hates you and reads you primarily for the thrill of being able to slag you over later on. It's not safe to assume that every reader you have has the same impulsive adoration of your baby or your child, or the same respect for the innocence of children, or the same appreciation of whatever values that photograph holds for you.

If someone steals my words and claims them as their own--well, it stinks, but no one is going to watch Frances and me walking down the street and say, "Hey, there's Frances! She's that little girl who did xyz on that website I was reading!" But if someone steals her picture? A picture that shows her face? "Hey, there's the mutant swamp monster! There's that kid that has FAS! There's the baby from so-and-so-'s MySpace profile picture!" I know, I know, what are the chances? Still. It's recognizable. It's uncontrollable. And no one out there is going to get that picture back for you once it's gone.

We're social creatures who relate to each other from our earliest lives and primarily throughout life through our faces. That's part of what makes blogs with photographs so appealing, what increases their readership and promotes all those affirming comments. We like faces. They make us relatable. That's also what makes photographs that show faces so vulnerable to abuse.

It isn't unreasonable to think that I'm a bit nuts over this. But do be careful. Be sure that whatever you're posting is something you're comfortable with being stolen, altered, photoshopped, and posted by fratboys in a discussion forum or as user icons on someone's LiveJournal page.


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Excellent, thought-provoking and educational post about the perils of the electronic age. It's a crying shame we have to spend so much of our time defending against people who don't have anything better to do with their time.

Posted by: Miche at February 22, 2007 8:49 AM

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I haven't posted any pictures since your run-in with the fark asshole. I really want to post pictures. I have some cute ones that I know my long distance friends and family would love to see, but I just can't bring myself to do it.

About a year ago I wrote a post that included a picture of me breastfeeding Ivy and a picture of Ivy "breastfeeding" her doll. I still get hits to that post every day. A couple of visitors return to that specific post over and over again, every day. It creeps me out, but I don't know what to do about it short of taking it down.

Posted by: Casey at February 22, 2007 8:51 AM

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Thanks for that sobering post. I always think twice before I post pictures and I don't post many pictures I would like to post because I too am worried about who might stumble upon them. I really liked what you said about words versus pictures, with respect to Frances.

Posted by: Alissa McElreath at February 22, 2007 9:45 AM

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Hey, thanks. Thanks a lot! I really learned something. And, like Alissa, I like what you said about words and pictures.

Posted by: Mary G at February 22, 2007 10:34 AM

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I've never posted photos on my site for the very reasons you blog about and now likely never will.

Posted by: Lyrehca at February 22, 2007 10:52 AM

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Thank you, and down come the photos.

Posted by: yankee,transferred at February 22, 2007 12:44 PM

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While I think that stealing images and photoshopping them or whatever is juvenile and cruel, I don't find myself that worried about it. If someone goes to the trouble to steal an image from my family-only viewed photos on Flickr, then posts it somewhere and makes disparaging remarks about it--wow, what a resourceful asshole. But I don't really care. It's not as if they are posting it on the evening news. The blogosphere is huge, and the chances that anyone I know or anyone who knows my kids will see it are pretty slim. Plus, anyone I know who DID see it would obviously see it for what it was: petty stupidity. It has nothing to do with the person in the image, and everything to do with the idiot stealing it. I'm sure many will think me naive, but I just don't see how that could harm my kids. Nor do I believe that the chances are very high that something like that would happen.
I understand your position, and you articulate it very well, but I don't share your view.

Posted by: Amy at February 22, 2007 12:51 PM

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This is a tough one for me, Andrea. I do post my daughter's picture all the time and will continue to do so. I wrestled long and hard with the issue but in the end I felt that there was more meaning, love, and vulnerability in my words than in any of my silly snaps. Maybe I would feel a bit differently if I had an artist's eye but I don't.

For me, showing pictures of my daughter is something closely tied to my family living so very far away. In fact I only started posting pictures and video in earnest when I knew my family was reading the blog. I know I could email them the odd pic but what I am in part doing with my blog is creating a word and text narrative of my daughter's life so that my family will know her fully (and, b/c it is my story, know me more fully as well). I come from a big family and it breaks my heart to have my daughter so cut off from the experience of being a part of a big, sloppy, loving extended family. The blog does help me bridge that gap.

I also write the blog for her to have some day and I like the thought that I can associate pictures with key moments. I don't scrap book or do anything other than put the photos in albums at home so it is nice to know that I can tie some photos to memories or extended story lines.

I do take precautions: I never name or tag my photos (I even searched the file #s after reading your post and couldn't find any foul play) and I don't include provokative or suggestive photos (although how I might define that and how a frat boy jerk might define that are two different things).

In the end, I guess I am willing to take the risk. Just like, in a few years, when her picture is in the newspaper here (and it will be; this is a small town--in fact it already has been in twice), I will take the risk that none of her "friends" will draw vampire teeth on her or give her hairy armpits. I think it inevitable in this day and age that her electronic image will be manipulated by someone, somewhere. I just think it is more likely to happen with someone in her peer group, though.

I will admit that in taking this stance I am speaking from a place of privledge. My daughter does not have physical differences. There is nothing that makes her stand out from the million other toddler photos online. This does not mean she is "safe" but, in this fucked-up world, it does mean that her image is safer. This is a disgusting reality but there it is.

Posted by: Mad Hatter at February 22, 2007 1:17 PM

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While I think that stealing images and photoshopping them or whatever is juvenile and cruel, I don't find myself that worried about it.
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Posted by: kris at February 22, 2007 3:33 PM

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hmmm. very interesting--the comments also. i don't post pictures on my blog--but not because I feel the same was as you do (completely) but because all the fears you've expressed here are also my husband's. And really, in a nutshell, he can't abide the idea of strangers happening upon the pictures, no matter how benign. And I have actually found this to be far more a typically male position than a female one (on a purely anecdotal and observational level!)

and so I respect this position, and certainly Casey's experience (above) made my skin crawl more than anything.

ironically, though I do not share pictures I feel I do miss something in terms of the community experience of certain blog networks. The power of images is so double-edged, as you sy--it can easily be exploited, but it can also be used to harness a sense of community. (I think Her Bad Mother's post on this last week explains this very well). I think among women bloggers, especially, images are used to strengthen and bolster community--to build trust, kinship, relationships. I think this is part of the new definition of "public discourse" you mentioned the other day. A new form of communal citizenry. The sharing of photos in this way is never going to stop--and neither is the exploitation of them. However, I think we do have choice to make as to whether the positives of sharing images (I think Mad Hatter makes a good point here) outweigh the negatives. Many times I regret that I do not share photos, because I feel I miss out on part of that experience.

All that said, in some ways I am glad that I have never been in a position to confront what you have, because I know it would rip me apart (and I would certainly make the same decision). However, I can say I would not probably have considered checking it out in the first place and just work from the assumption that most people are good (and perhaps I am naive) and that this is a way to make a connection.

Posted by: joy at February 22, 2007 5:55 PM

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I'm so sorry, what a crappy thing to have happened. Creepy, icky, disturbing, sad. If I were talking to you I'd swear like a sailor about it, but somehow I just can't do it on a public domain! Great lessons to be taken from the experience though. Thank you for sharing.

Posted by: Meena at February 23, 2007 3:03 PM

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VERY UPSETTING! :-(

Posted by: Mary at February 24, 2007 9:28 PM

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Interesting post. I have the same problem with image-stealing (not, so far, of my son but he's only 8 months old) and have since i started my site years ago. My husband told me about a geek he heard about who was so tired of his bandwidth being stolen by image "borrowers" that he altered the code of how his photos were displayed so that when someone linked directly to them, they would display on the thief's site as [a picture of something quite rude] with [additional rude text underneath] which I think is brilliant. Wouldn't solve the problem of out-and-out thievery, though.

PS: To add insult to injury, I think one of the commenters above (Kris) is a spam0r.

Posted by: cheesefairy at February 24, 2007 9:56 PM

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I'm sorry you experienced that. What an ugly world this can be.

Posted by: Adria at February 26, 2007 7:47 PM

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Hi Andrea,

I found your blog from reading about Monday Missions in the Moritherapy blog.

So far, I have read your Monday Missions, your post on Privacy, and your rules.

I am a parent, step parent and administrative assistant living in a housing co-op.

What has kept me reading is your clear explanation of the issue at hand, and startling new information. I didn't know that it was possible for people to access pictures without a trail of "crumbs" leading back to them.

I think I am still under the radar, and I can see now that if I want to create a public presence I have some homework to do.

Thanks very much for your contribution to my education.

Regards,

jael emberley

foie@shaw.ca
Vancouver, BC

Posted by: jael at March 6, 2007 6:08 PM

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I've just started a flickr site for family members who live far away, and I didn't realize all that stuff. For one, I will re-tag everything in numbers, and take names off descriptors. I don't know if I'll take the photos down or not.

I appreciate this information tho. I think I'm rather naive about all this.

Posted by: Mary Lynn Smith at August 8, 2007 4:21 PM

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