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April 20, 2007 Frances Friday: Frances is the best medicine
Another, unextolled advantage to the NEW AND IMPROVED Spring! we're all loving this year, and its immune system challenge, is this great cold I've got right now. It's in the phlegm-factory stage (not that this will stop me from enjoying the nice weather we're finally getting). Monday was my compressed day with Frances, and given the cold, rain, and cold (two colds in one!), it wasn't the greatest ever. We had a Pyjama Day. No one got dressed. That was the highlight. Frances wanted to do more exciting things, like chase! and fly the Baby Owl all around the house, but Mummy was only able to sit up on the couch and prop her eyes open with toothpicks. I managed to smile and croak out the occasional, "Wow, look at Baby Owl fly! She's really been practicing, hasn't she?" I even took a nap while she was napping. The last time that happened, Frances was maybe two months old. By 8:00 I was for all practical purposes unconscious. My eyes were open, and I was ambulatory, but this was merely a clever guise for getting my wee girl tucked into bed, at which point I collapsed in my own and pulled the blankets up to my chin. I turned out the lights. Bliss. Deeply medicated bliss. I heard the door rattle; then saw four tiny fingers wrapped around the edge, then a slice of blond hair, then a forehead, then two blue eyes. "Is that a Frances?" She walked into the room. "I just wanted to snuggle with the baby mole." "Ok. Come on up, we'll have a quick snuggle." She clambered up with Baby Owl and we snuggled under the blankies for a few minutes, then I sent her back to bed. I fidgeted, read for a few minutes, then settled myself down again. Shortly, I heard the door rattle. Then the four tiny fingers, slice of hair, forehead, and face. "Is that another Frances?" She walked in. "I just wanted to visit." I sighed. "Frances, Mummy is sick. I really need to sleep. We can snuggle again, but then you have to go back to your bed and stay there." "OK, Mummy." Up she climbed, and we snuggled under the blankies again. "Are you sick?" "Yes, I am. I have an owwie in my throat." "Can I kiss it better?" "Oh, sweetie. That is so nice of you. But no, I just have to take medicine and get some sleep, and it will go away in a few days." "Your baby mole can make it better." "It can?" My lips twitched. "I see. OK kiddo, let's go back to bed. I'll tuck you in again, but this time you have to stay there. I'll see you in the morning. Now Mummy needs to get some sleep so her cold will go away." By this time it was almost nine; thanks to the deeply medicated state I was in, I drifted off quickly and woke only once, near five, to swallow some more codeine for the sore throat. (It was that sore.) In the morning I staggered into the kitchen, where Frances was eating her multigrain cereal. "Good morning, sweetie." "Mummy! Are you feeling better?" "Not yet." I pulled her on to my lap. "How are you feeling? Do you have any owwies?" "No." "If you feel any owwies in your throat, you tell S or C, ok?" "OK. Mummy, can I give you a hug? It will help you feel better." She wrapped her arms around my neck and thumped me vigorously on the back. "There! Do you feel better now?" "That was a great hug, sweetie. It made me very happy." "But are you still sick?" "Yes, I am. But that's ok. It will go away in a few days." "Should I give you another hug?" "You should eat your breakfast. You can give me another hug before we leave, though." "OK. It will make you feel better." "Yes, it will." Posted by Andrea at April 20, 2007 6:32 AM under Frances Friday EMAIL this entry (comments fields are below this section) Comments Such deliciousness! Posted by: liz at April 20, 2007 9:54 AM
...and I hope you feel better soon. Posted by: liz at April 20, 2007 9:55 AM
Aw, I love this. I love the way they take on the role of caregiver, as if it's payback for all the times your hugs made them feel better. (And I hope you're all better now.) Posted by: NotSoSage at April 20, 2007 10:04 AM
baby hugs are the best. they make everything feel better. Posted by: Bob at April 20, 2007 10:26 AM
Kids are the best medicine sometimes. Mine (who I think is around the same age as Frances) tells me he's glad I'm there, that I'm his best friend. Sometimes, that's all it takes to make a crappy day better. Here from Major Bedhead. Posted by: Andrea at April 20, 2007 10:39 AM
I find my self looking forward to Friday now. It only just dawned me recently that Fridays are Frances Friday! I'm a bit slow. :D Posted by: LauraJ at April 20, 2007 11:15 AM
Awww. Too sweet. She takes such good care of her mommy... Posted by: suze at April 20, 2007 11:42 AM
Hello, other Andrea. :) baby hugs are indeed the best. Especially with the back-thumping. It's the back-thumping that gets me. Posted by: Andrea at April 20, 2007 12:23 PM
Yes, it will. No other medicine goes down easier, with fewer complications or possible side effects. Posted by: theflyingmum at April 20, 2007 2:52 PM
What a little doll. Posted by: fluttercrafts at April 20, 2007 9:49 PM
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