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October 26, 2007

Frances Friday: First Kiss

Frances: Kisses are nice, even when they’re loud.

Andrea: I see. You like kisses?

F: Yeah. They’re nice.

A: Who kissed you loud? (Thinking she meant me)

F: Colin.

A: What? Carmen?

F: No, COLIN.

A: (Comes back into living room from kitchen) Colin? Is that a boy in one of your classes?

F: Yeah.

A: And he kissed you? Where did he kiss you?

F: On the cheek, and the back.

A: I see. And did you like it?

F: Yeah. But the teacher got really mad.

A: She did? I see? Why is that?

F: Because kissing is not nice.

A: What? It’s not?

F: No. It’s nice when YOU kiss me, but not Colin.

A: It isn’t? You didn’t like it?

F: No. It wasn’t nice. He shouldn’t kiss people.

A: Oh.


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Oh, my -- so sweet and hilarious -- though I think if I were you it would have given me a weird sort of milestone vertigo.

Posted by: Jane Dark at October 26, 2007 10:16 AM

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Too classic!

But oh...oh dear, what the teacher said. I'm not sure what to think.

BTW, Persistence loves the photo of Frances hopscotching.

Julie
Using My Words

Posted by: Julie Pippert at October 26, 2007 10:31 AM

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Lol...giv it 10 years...YOU'll be prying her off the boys on the couch. *giggle*

Posted by: LauraJ at October 26, 2007 10:35 AM

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This still cracks me up. Every time I think of it I start laughing.

It did give me a sense of milestone vertigo, though; and I'm not sure what the teacher actually said yet. I haven't had a chance to grill her on the Kissing Incident. (But I plan to.)

Posted by: Andrea Author Profile Page at October 26, 2007 10:41 AM

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Schools are in such a tricky place for this -- they have no idea if the parents will be upset so they are reactionary on our behalves, I think.

Posted by: Madeleine at October 26, 2007 11:06 AM

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Who can blame Colin for kissing Frances?

Posted by: yankee,transferred at October 26, 2007 4:39 PM

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This is such a wonderful thing - I'm so looking forward to having conversations with my little guy, because kids so often say the best things! As for the teacher, I think you're wise to check with her as to what she said.

Posted by: Freakazojd at October 28, 2007 3:06 AM

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Duckie came back with a kissing report too. Her teacher's response (if true) was "kissing is fun but not for in school". Now the children seem to be practicing killing one another -- I preferred the kissing...

Posted by: Jen at October 28, 2007 6:38 AM

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I'm with y,t. Who can blame him for kissing Frances?!

Posted by: suze at October 28, 2007 9:03 PM

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I think its sweet. I don't think teaching young boys to touch girls respectfully means teaching them not to touch them. The reason hugging has been banned in Oregon schools
see: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,156620,00.html
is because conservative crazy people are trying to enforce their beliefs on others. And they believe that by teaching children not to do things at all with keep them from doing things the wrong way. I won't. Pretending sex doesn't exist or that its wrong (it isn't) will not stop kids from having it. It is my personal belief that children should be taught that kissing is a way to show affection and should be done with respect (ie, with permission, politely, etc). If you teach them its bad children end up using kissing as a way to harm/punish other children by forcing kisses on those who don't want them. (Boy, have I seen that.) And that is really what we want to avoid. In Frances case she learned that it is wrong for boys to kiss her. Even if she likes it. Which I don't agree with. If Frances wasn't upset I don't think the teacher should have jumped to being upset. Although, telling you (the parent) about it would have been a good idea either way.

Posted by: Samantha at July 31, 2008 9:19 PM

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Go Berserk




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