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April 3, 2008 No wonder they wanted me to buy her a backpack
Like every other parent in Toronto, I've been following this story with great interest and relief. Did you know that Frances has homework? She's four. Her homework is to bring home a reader every day and read it to me. Every day. Except that she can't read. And in the new curriculum, for whatever reason, at least in this school, kids are being taught to read by looking at the pictures. She doesn't have a clue yet about looking at the letters and sounding a word out to figure out what it says. No no. She's been taught--and her teachers have informed me that this is intentional--to look at the picture and guess what the words say. (Don't get me started.) So she brings home this reader every day, and looks at a picture of a little boy smiling, and points at the words, and "reads," "the boy is happy!" When it should be "I am smiling." And, given how she's being taught, I can't correct her by saying, "No, look, honey; the word begins with I, what sound does I make?" Maybe the whole "letters make sounds and go together to form words" part is coming later, I don't know; all I know is, right now, Frances gets sent home with a book every day to "read" to me. Did I mention she's four? When they don't bring the reader back the next day with the checklist filled out saying that they've read it, the teacher sends home a note saying "It is very important for me to do my homework every day. Please make sure I read my home reading book!" and they make the kid sign it. (CCW, I know this will ring a bell for you.) Now perhaps in a family where a parent stays home and little Bob or Jasmine is only in j/k for the 2.5 hours daily and has plenty of time at home to play, this might be feasible. For the child of a single mother who spends 9.5 hours a day at school/daycare, it's obnoxious. Frances and I get home at 6:00. There is then supper to eat, which as every parent of a four-year-old can attest, takes at least thirty minutes. She goes to bed at 7:30, meaning we start getting ready for bed just after 7:00; and at 7 her father calls. And somehow, in the thirty minutes a day of free family time we have, I am supposed to force her to pretend to read me a book? She's FOUR! Either just before or just after March break, they'd sent home a home reader about penguins. Frances could not read any part of it. My choices were to either read it to her (thus defeating the point of homework) or attempt to teach her to read myself in the five minutes we had before bedtime by teaching her that "letters make sounds and go together to form words," because as I have described, she was trying to guess what the words were by looking at the pictures. I opted for C--throw the book across the room--and decided then and there that we would not be doing any more home reading books. Tonight, at the parent-teacher interview, I inform her teacher. I expect it will be handy to have the Toronto District School Board on my side. Wish me luck. Posted by Andrea at April 3, 2008 9:11 AM under Single Momming EMAIL this entry (comments fields are below this section) Comments Ugh! The person who came up with this theory of teaching reading may well have been the same genius who invented the "new math" when I was a child. "New Math" is the reason why, to this day, I hyperventilate when faced with any problem involving fractions. or percentages. Or that contains the word "integer." Posted by: Jill at April 3, 2008 10:12 AM
she's FOUR! this is why i'm moving to the jungle. i can't stand it anymore. it's like a Dr. Seuss tale gone wrong. Posted by: jen at April 3, 2008 10:14 AM
I have 4 yo twins who are in pre-school daycare for 10 hours a day. And they get homework too, thank goodness nothing like a daily reader! There's generally a weekly assignment to make something. Honestly, I am so not ready for homework again. Especially times two and in the short amount of time I have with them each day. As it is, I get home at 7 and they go to bed at 8. When the heck are we supposed to do this? Posted by: Risa at April 3, 2008 10:29 AM
Wow, that's a different interpretation of the similar assignment that we had. When Snuggly Girl was in JK, the silly little readers came home with the instruction that the child could read it to the parent OR the parent could read it to the child. The basic theme being, read with your child every day, because children learn to read by being read to as well as through direct instruction. I understand a bit of the whole language approach, and I think it does involve looking at the words along with the pictures. Like, "Yes, that's a penguin. Which word on this page might be penguin? P-p-p. Can you find the p word?" That kind of thing. Posted by: Madeleine at April 3, 2008 10:34 AM
And, I forgot to say, good luck at your interview! That report is certainly timely for you. We have our interview this afternoon, too. We have Issues we've been talking to the principal about since September. Very little motion so far. Grrrrr. Posted by: Madeleine at April 3, 2008 10:36 AM
Is this what I have to look forward too? Goodness gracious! "Guess the words by looking at the picture"?!?! If I didn't know you, I'd think you were kidding. I wish you luck...and look forward to you post tomorrow as to how it went. Posted by: Wendy at April 3, 2008 10:37 AM
Oh! One more thing, inspired by the post title. The backpack thing. We have been endlessly trying to buy the smallest backpack that will do the job, because small bodies shouldn't be carrying big heavy bags. I'm guessing this will be a bigger issue for you and Frances, and possibly something to keep in mind if you are requesting accommodations -- if there are ways to minimize the need for her to carry large folders back and forth, you can stick to a smaller backpack. And if that gets her out of homework, too, all the better. :-) Posted by: Madeleine at April 3, 2008 10:40 AM
Okay, ridiculous. My suggestion? Smile and nod, pay lip service to the "homework" and do your own reading together on a daily basis. I think the "whole language" thing is crap. Seriously. I believe it's actually out of fashion nowadays, too, although things change so quickly that I'm not so certain. Ridiculous. (I'm a teacher, by the way. Just sayin'.) Posted by: Naomi (Urban Mummy) at April 3, 2008 10:57 AM
I agree that daily required homework for 4-year-olds is ridiculous, and am very glad that my 4-year-old doesn't have any! That said, she is in a pilot program for teaching young children with DS to read, and we do have a fun lesson that we do todether "daily," or as often as we can fit it in, no pressure. I haven't researched the pictures first, then words approach, but I know that research has shown that there are significant issues with the phonics approach for many kids. Ellie's program focuses on matching pictures to sight words, and I think that starting with "what does this picture say to you?" is not an unreasonable way to develop pre-reading skills. Francis sounds like a very bright child, and I'm sure that it won't take her any time at all to realize that with her real books (rather than these "readers" she's assigned) the pictures don't perfectly reflect the text, but rather the two work together to tell the story. I bet she gets this already. Posted by: Sarahlynn at April 3, 2008 12:06 PM
Jill--too funny. Un-teach your daughter to read. (I taught myself how to read, too--at 3--and it sure does make a kid a misfit in kindergarten, or at least it did 20-odd years ago.) Madeleine--grrr indeed. And that's exactly it, shouldn't some understanding of how words work factor into this? What happens to kids when they stop reading picture books? On the backpack thing--it seriously was a big issue back in September, both the daycare and the j/k were hassling us about getting Frances a backpack. There are no backpacks small enough for her and probably won't be until grade 1, but they just wanted something convenient to stick her papers into, regardless of whether it was healthy for her to be carrying it or not. Eventually they started putting the papers into her lunch bag, as I'd requested. Naomi, we do read every day. That's part of what makes it all so frustrating. SarahLynn, I haven't looked into the research either--but I can say categorically that this approach is not working for Frances at all. And at this point, I'm not bothered by it (except that she's going to have a whole lot of unlearning to do later one when she figures out what reading actually is). She's four, she doesnt' have to be reading yet. It's this idea that we need to do this form of homework every day (or get chastised) which is not only not helping whatsoever but seems to be me to be actively hindering her in this area, when we have so little time together already. Posted by: Andrea
Good luck with the interview! Posted by: LauraJ at April 3, 2008 1:20 PM
That whole thing seems sort of ridiculous. I mean, I understand that most families out there unfortunately do not read to their children, so maybe this is part of getting kids interested in books. I understand that storytelling and figuring out and being able to convey what is going on in a picture all key skills to have. BUT, it is NOT reading. To call it reading, and not storytelling or something like that, is absurd. Are they supposed to be just ignoring the words that are apparently written along with the pictures? Are they supposed to believe that those words say something other than what they really do? I see these teachers as setting themselves up for some major work down the road when the really do have to un-teach these kids how to read. Posted by: Stephanie at April 3, 2008 1:32 PM
Most research suggests that homework before the high school level does not promote improved learning. That said, some scholars believe that it does promote the development of study skills and habits necessary for children in later years. I've been a teacher at a number of private school in which homework was not only approved of, but it was something parents expected of their children. If I were you, I would explain your time restrictions to Frances's teacher, and then do what you believe to be best. You know your daughter and your family situation better than her teacher possible can. Good Luck, Posted by: karla at April 3, 2008 4:08 PM
I just had a talk with my son's kindergarten teacher about his writing homework. I told her he wasn't going to do it. I said I agreed that he needs to learn to write, but that I would only do it HIS way. I would not make him write some dumb sentence using the words "mom" "dad" and "can." I was all ready for a fight but she surprised me; she said, That's fine! I told her I'd take pictures of his writing when he did it (he likes to write airplane names on the airplane's wings) & that would be his "homework." I think she really just wanted to know that I'm an active participant in my son's learning, that I take learning seriously & wouldn't undermine her... Anyway. Here's hoping it goes as smoothly for you. Posted by: Jennifer at April 3, 2008 5:44 PM
OMG she's 4!! and what is with this new site reading garbage!! Sounding out letters is how you learn to read! She's FOUR!! Posted by: Dawn at April 3, 2008 6:12 PM
I have a friend who refers to the homework regimen as "homeschooling" every single night, after she has worked for ten hours and the public schools have not accomplished what they set out to for the day. They literally spend three hours a night doing homework with an 11 year old boy. It's completely ridiculous. A four year old with homework. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted by: Mary at April 3, 2008 7:47 PM
Ugh! Have you read The Case Against Homework? Homework is one of my pet peeves -- and homework for four-year-olds is worthless. Of course, being non-confrontational as I am, I just lie and say my kids did it. Whatever. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I've been enjoying poking around yours and can see you already have some interesting thoughts on fate -- look forward to more if you get to it. Posted by: Mary (MPJ) at April 4, 2008 10:58 PM
ugh, i hope they ban homework for jk by next sept. i've heard dd's jk teacher to be rips it up in front of kids if done incorrectly...wtf? by the way we've been given 4 tiny backpacks over the years which fit... do they need to be a certain size or something?? Posted by: marianne at April 5, 2008 3:31 AM
As a special treat a couple of years ago, I bought Ellie a Dora the Explorer backpack that she was coveting but didn't really need. The best thing about this Backpack was that it had a smaller backpack ("Backpack!") attached to it. The smaller pack was the perfect size for a long time, and Ellie was so excited/proud/happy to carry it around, even if it only had a snack and a pair of sunglasses inside. When she was, for a long time, too small/weak to hold baby toys, I bought a few American Girl Doll toys for her. She doesn't have any American Girl Dolls, but even the doll's toys are decent enough quality yet small enough that a (small, weak) baby could play with them. Posted by: Sarahlynn at April 7, 2008 6:33 PM
Oh I hate the sight reading concept - and we only got it from 5 years old. My 8 year old is still struggling with reading a little, mainly because she can't "guess" the word immediately and gets frustrated. Funny, if she actually got taught how sounds and words got put together it may not be so bad. So I end up "unteaching" her what she learns from school so she can have the knowledge. Posted by: jeanie at April 13, 2008 8:53 PM
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